Spectator Sports

I love watching my husband jerk off. I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before, as well as my general fascination with male masturbation, but I’ve gotten a few questions about this recently so I thought this was a good time to restate my position on guys waxing the dolphin, spanking the monkey, and/or punching the clown.

I don’t want to get too deep into my overall masturbation fetish, but I was raised with the idea that pleasuring oneself was deviant behavior and so it had to be practiced in private and was never to be a topic of conversation with anyone. This is a big part of why I enjoy seeing other people do it – I’m, seeing something that I shouldn’t be; a deeply private act that the person I’m seeing performing it should be ashamed and embarrassed by. That’s the twisted psychological framing that makes it so erotic for me.

I very much enjoy watching videos of women masturbating, but being a female myself means that I’m intimately familiar with how it all works (though it is fun to see the spin other ladies put on the process of getting themselves off). Watching a guy wank his cock was a subject of much speculation and fantasy for me throughout my teens. I eventually gleaned the mechanics of it all, but actually witnessing it eluded me until I was in college and had a boyfriend uninhibited enough to beat his meat for my viewing pleasure. I’ve been hooked ever since.

My husband and I frequently masturbate together, either as foreplay or as a mutual midweek treat before we go to sleep. Sometimes I’ll ask him to whack off for me so I can watch. I’m enthralled by seeing the way he handles himself like such an expert. I’d like to think I can deliver a decent handjob, but when I see my husband stroke himself I realize that I’m still in the minor leagues compared to him.

I like when he whips up a batch of baby batter while on his knees. It’s especially amazing when his balls are hanging loose and flying all over the place while he goes at it. I watch them bouncing off his pumping fist really hard and wonder how that’s possible when I can merely graze his nuts in the wrong way and he’s curled up in pain. Testicles are strange little creatures – and oh so lickable.

My favorite part, of course, is the grand finale: the cumshot! It doesn’t get much sexier in my book that seeing a thick load of semen shooting out of a man’s cock. I know you guys see it every day (sometimes a few times a day), but it still thrills me today as it did the first time I saw it happen. It’s like a sexy magic trick! Not only that, but you get to eat the rabbit that gets pulled out of the hat (hmm, that doesn’t sound as appealing as it should). I often struggle with the dilemma of having my husband jerk off into my mouth or onto himself. If he nuts in my mouth, I don’t get to see him squirt (unless we go for an uncertain attempt from 3-point territory). If he spooges all over his belly and chest, I get to see all the sexiness exploding everywhere, but then I have a lot of work to do to collect it all with my tongue.

No matter which way it goes I’m happy because I know I’ll have plenty of chances to have my loving hubby jack off for me in whatever way I’m horny for on any given day.

How about all of you? What’s your masturbation relation with your partner?

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Now for something completely different…

A reader recently forwarded this article to me and it looks like my story “Stroke Break” might be more prescient that any of us dared hope!

Should You Masturbate at Work?


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7 thoughts on “Spectator Sports

  1. Thank you Rachel, for taking about masterbation. I bet your husband feel the same way watching you masterbate. I know I like to watch my girlfriend masterbate.

  2. Rachel,

    As a professional masturbator, thank you for the insight on how much you like watching us men stroke our hard cocks for you. I love when my girlfriend asks me to jerk off for her. Sometimes she just watches as I rub one out and occasionally she will join me. either way is a total turn on for me. I also jack off for women on a few of the random chat sites, something i have done since the technology emerged in the 1990’s. When I was younger, a girl down the street was fascinated with seeing a boy cum, and I would let her watch me. I was 14 and she was 13. We never touched one another, except when my baby batter would shoot so far and hit her someplace. That always intensified my orgasm. well, all these memories have gotten to me, time to go rub one out…thinking of you.

  3. My wife and I have been married 45 years. In the “good Ole days” as a diversion from our usual sucking and fucking we’d often have a masturbation night. We’d sit nude facing each other with her thighs over mine and her pussy within cockhead reach of my cock and we’d attempt to edge as long as possible. This of course was pre-internet days but we did have a series of audio types from Penthouse magazine with reading of the fabulous Penthouse forum letters. My cock would be so slippery from all my leaked precum and her pussy would be glistening wet. We’d attempt to masturbate and synchronize our cums…it was a wonderful way to play. I love her dearly but she no longer is interested in our mutual masturbation sessions. I masturbate on my own now but long for those days.

  4. I’m glad you brought it up. My wife does like to watch me masturbate, and I’m more than happy to stroke my cock to/for her. Often we take turns playing, a little of each doing ourselves, a little doing each other. A few times a week I like to jerk off to her while she showers in the morning and she obliges me buy saying filthy things while I stroke. Occasionally, she’ll call if she’s stuck in traffic on her commute to work and initiate a little one sided phone sex with her telling me to jack off for her. She knows exactly what to say to get me going. Actually, we did that this morning!

  5. Thank you Rachel, I myself have jacked off with and in front of almost all of my former girlfriends. I’ve been single for a few months now and I’m in no hurry to rush into a relationship. Like Larry, I have several females who I cum for and with via Skype. It is a turn on for me and each girl I do it for and with. Some of them only plan to watch me,but after I begin stroking myself. Their hand somehow manages to find its way to their wet pussy to rub their swollen clit. It’s very enjoyable as I would think you could imagine.

  6. Hi Rachael
    I’m currently unemployed (I just started computer security training so hopefully that will be resolved in few months) and jerking off is about the only thing that gives me happiness. When I was working, I stroked it at work several times. The doctor in the article said to not imagine your co-workers or some bullshit, but if I have a hot bitch or two at work, I’d be stupid NOT to imagine getting some ass from them. So, thanks for the advice, doc, but I’m totally polishing this knob to Susan’s big, Cross-Fit sculpted ass in HR.

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