Strapless Wonder

I spotted this intriguing toy on someone’s Twitter, and I can’t stop thinking about it.  It looks like it would be fucking amazing to play with.  My problem is that I don’t have anyone to use it on.  While the prospect of using it on my husband holds a certain appeal for me, I’m fairly sure that the reality of it would likely introduce consequences into our relationship that I’d rather not risk.  And that’s only assuming he’d let me fuck his ass in the first place.

This devious device also has me regretting more than ever that I’m not particularly into sex with women.  I could really have a blast with this thing and a female fuck buddy.  I’m wondering if I were to plug it in, lube it up, and jack off with it whether I would be able to orgasm that way.  I’m seriously considering ordering one without telling my husband and giving that a try.  Just the possibility of being able to stroke my very own cock is driving me wild with perverse excitement.

Have you ever used one of these?  Or have one used on you?

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9 thoughts on “Strapless Wonder

  1. First time message, but long time lurker. When I saw this post, it immediately stirred something in me. Hot sexual women that get turned on by the idea of taking their man really does it for me, and you my dear are blistering. I have experimented with similar play with partners, but never a strap on or something as wonderful as this toy. I have unfortunately never had a partner at that stage of trust to discuss taking it further. It is a huge fantasy of mine though. After your last post, I would think you have a partner that likes a walk on the wild side. It would probably be a slow process to introduce it to him to make sure you don’t spook him or come across the wrong way, but he sounds like he would be ‘open’ given the right progression and incentive. You mention consequences? What are you fearing? Love your blog, and watching you openly discuss your ever blossoming sexuality! You are beautiful.

  2. I’d let a lady try it out on me; the number one thing on my sexual bucket list is to have a lady fuck me with a strap-on.

  3. I should think that you’d be able to give yourself one righteous knee-trembler of an orgasm with this little beauty. Just plug it in the appropriate, er, apertures, then use the cock as a joystick of sorts while taking in a nice juicy porn clip. It’s like a video game, only you come like a wildcat at the end. (Call it “World of Fuckcraft”.)

  4. Mum has got a couple of feeldoes they look a bit like this but without the anal bit, v difficult to keep inside you, you’ve got to keep your muscles holding it tight or it slips out, ‘quelle horreur’

  5. I’ve never had the guts to suggest this kind of thing to my wife. Part of it is that horrible fear of being thought gay that gets drilled into most guys’ heads in childhood and adolescence. I’ve mostly shed that fear over the years, but it’s still there lurking around in the background.

    Part of it is the worry that she might become concerned that she’s not cutting it in the sack through traditional methods. I don’t want to do anything to make her insecure.

    Part of it is just nerves over the possibility it would end up being awkward and/or gross.

    That one sure does look like a clever gizmo, though!

  6. Like Sam, I am also curious about what you mean by consequences. Are you worried that it might upset the balance in your relationship? That’s one thing that worries me about asking a girl to do this with me. I’m really not worried about her thinking I might be gay or that it might be gross – I’ve practiced enough on my own to know what I’m doing. What I am scared of happening, though, is for her to begin disrespecting me afterward just because I have a submissive streak in the bedroom, or for her to go blabbing it about to all of her girlfriends. The emotional aspect of the act is much more important than the physical, so if I am not absolutely sure that I can trust my partner to be discreet about something like this, I wouldn’t be interested in even trying it out.

    If you are serious about wanting to try this with your husband, there is an author on Literotica whose stories are the perfect blueprints for buttering him for it. Her name is Escriterra, and the way she approaches the scenario is completely different than all the other BDSM-themed stories that involve pegging. Instead of it being about humiliation and/or pain, she focuses on the eroticism of the male body and how much she loves men’s asses in particular. It’s actually pretty refreshing to read an erotic story that isn’t all about the woman worshipping the guy’s dick. She also gets off on the idea of having a detachable cock, and writes about jerking off her ‘feeldo’ until she makes herself cum. I just wish she wrote mom/son incest stories with those elements in them. Now THAT would be hot!

  7. like the other, not interested in men, but the idea of being used that way is interesting and seems to push some buttons

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