Thinkin’ ’bout My Dissolution

Aside from provoking a sexual assault, this video demonstrates my biggest fear when it comes to my plan to flash a stranger at some point this year:

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14 thoughts on “Thinkin’ ’bout My Dissolution

  1. For your own beginning of exhibitionism perhaps a more subtle ‘accidental’ reveal could be the way to start? The knowledge your braless breasts will sway and easily show from your very loose top as you lean over, with no eye contact until you turn to leave, should be a nice turn on for you, and him or her. Or if that’s too far too soon, I can say a loose top over braless breasts, when allowed to move freely exciting the nipples for all to see, is just lovely. Done with full knowledge of the effect must be pussy moistening? Then there’s the slightly see through option…. mmmm many possibilities

  2. While I haven’t been flashed before, I did have an experience in high school that left me utterly stunned at the time because it was just so out of nowhere and improbable. I was in art class, bending over to put something up at the end of the period and this girl came up behind me, smacked my ass, smiled at me and left. Now, at face value that doesn’t seem so weird, but this girl was the hottest chick I have ever seen in real life, very popular, and a grade above mine. I couldn’t understand why I would even be a blip on her radar. I can’t remember if she actually said anything, all I remember is that impish smile and watching her walk away. No one else saw any of this and she never actually talked to me, like ever, but that little interaction had a profound effect on me.

  3. Rachael, don’t let this video influence you… the poor fellow in this video probably had never seen a sexy woman up close before in his life, not to mention seeing a gorgeous pair of boobs flashed before him…

    Do go with it… be fun, be careful… and do let us know!

  4. @Rachael DMM: my guess is that you (and the other lovely ladies who hang out in this “dirty-minded” part of the web) will do a wonderful and arousing job of it, when you decide to go for it. I mean, if it’s a fantasy, and you put a lot of thought into it, it seems like you’d have a great deal more situational awareness during those times in which you may be tempted to do it. I don’t mean to pile-on the woman in the video, but frankly that looked like her boyfriend had a video camera and a 25W lightbulb goes off over his head: “Hey, go flash that guy over there! It’ll be *Epic*!”

    I think my favorite fantasy of this kind involves a woman and a Dirty Old Man (that would be me!) sitting across from each other on a train / subway / bus. There are other passengers, but the pair is somewhat isolated, sitting in the rear. I don’t know how this would work in Real Life – the city I live in has crap for public transportation – but I love the idea!

  5. @Cunnilique and @Mr. Pickle make very good points, I think it is all about how you flash and your target (victim lol). I have flashed a few times, but I do it as a ‘accident’ flash, seems to always get attentive stares. I have not been brave enough to do a full knowledge flash…yet, but maybe this year, with your inspiration Rach, I might xxx

  6. @Mr. Pickle: I, for one, am hoping for at least a smile when I whip mine out. I probably won’t just blindside some poor schlub, though. I’ll most likely try to pick someone who has at least noticed me in my fully clothed state and shown some interest, then give them a little more if I feel it’s safe.

  7. I’m left wondering: how do people think he’s supposed to react to that?

    I confess it makes me unhappy that the guy who got flashed was probably chosen because he fit a common, and unflattering, nerd stereotype. My guess is that he was aware of that.

    In short, I think that if a person is looking to flash someone in hopes of sharing a brief, fun little sexual thrill with a stranger – the video above is an example of how NOT to do it.

  8. I agree it was poorly done on her part. It’s still hilarious though. I think my reaction would have been to ask her to have a seat.

  9. He may not have reacted at all because he was to shocked to see something like that live. Trust that he told all his friends and spent a lot of time jacking off thinking about it.

  10. *image of Gandalf looking incredulous*
    “You have no power here.”

    Funny the Filthy Frank audio at the end.

    In all seriousness, public exposure can be really fun but this girl didn’t do it with any subtlety. There was no tease. His reaction had more to do with her presentation than a lack of appreciation for her tits on his part. If you are served food cooked by a famous chef out of th finest ingredients on a greasy paper plate in line at a cafeteria with a plastic spork, you probably won’t find yourself very impressed.

    The key is to give some hint, attract curiosity. Toy with the possibility and encourage the observer’s prurient interest. Dance around the edges of exposure until you’re sure they’re interested in seeing something more. It’s funny to say in this context but, good flashing involves consent. It’s sexiest when you know the observer wants to see–is EAGER to see.

    Ideally, you want to make the observer’s day. This girl mildly inconvenienced her target for a moment. At best.

  11. Damn. Not a word said and he basically cracked her mentally. If you flash for attention that kind of reaction is going to hurt. If you flash for the rush it won’t. There is a serious difference between wanting attention and being an exibitionist. This video is a fine demonstration of the former.

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